How to desire your ambitions and fulfil your dreams in life?

Life is the most precious thing for every creature on this planet, isn’t it? When there is life in existence then there should be some reason to live for, to invest your life into something, to do something fabulous that the world requires.

When we talk about fulfilling dreams, ambitions, etc… There are various factors that help us achieve our goals but 2 things are of the most important before we talk about any form of success and they are: Career that we chose in our life because this will decide everything else that helps us achieve success.

As far as career is concerned, we all have experienced the dilemma of choosing the perfect career at least once in our life. We all have wondered what is that one thing that is best suited for me? isn’t it?

Choosing the right career is an Art, which most of us don’t know so that is where career guidance plays a huge role. But don’t worry, we have written the whole article on “Why career guidance is important?” & as well as “How to make a perfect career choice?” kindly refer to it.

In this article we are going to discuss the importance of desire, the proper way to do it, how to live upon a definite chief aim of life, and much more with practical steps that you could directly implement in your life & see the results right away in your life. So Let’s start!

What is desire & how important it is to desire?

To achieve anything in life, the first step is always a wish then it becomes a dream & then it becomes a desire. To desire is very important, don’t wish, don’t dream but instead desire as intensely as you could because dreams, wishes are words that describe that you will may have it someday & we consider it a negative word it helps us to delay & procrastinate to achieve it. So instead you should have a dominating desire for a long time.

In the beginning, when the desire first appeared in someone’s mind, it may have been, probably was, only a wish, but it was no mere a wish when you can’t stop yourself from working towards it. That’s desire & then when you work more & more that desire becomes Burning desire & that’s when you should congratulate yourself because now only you could stop yourself, no one else could. That’s a superpower!

“The greatest, biggest & impossible achievements was, at first a dream which then transcends to a burning desire.”

Anyone who has ever succeeded or achieved something extraordinary in life is because they chose a definite goal, gave all their effort, with all their will power, using every single ounce of their energy to fulfil that desire & put everything back of that goal including their physical, financial, social, psychological, emotional energy every single thing.

One thing you should definitely understand when you say that you have a desire, when your desire is strong enough when it’s a burning desire then you could never quit because when you have a strong desire you utmost focus is on work to achieve something, when you think of quitting that means your desire is not deep enough.

“You should leave yourself no possible way to quit. You have to do it or die!”

What is the proper way to desire?

You should desire with a state of mind that becomes an obsession, with planning definite ways and means to fulfil those with backing those plans with persistence that you should not remember what failure is.

“You can do it if you believe you can. You can’t if you believe you can’t.”

Singleness of purpose is essential for success, no matter what may be one’s idea of the definition of success. Yet singleness of purpose is a quality which may, and generally does, call for thought on many things. But the question arises on what basis you should select a purpose, and that is, thinking about the well-being of others, put yourself aside & think about what world requires the most? There’s a quote which perfectly explains it is as follows: –

“Fools do what life brings them, intelligent people do what they love to do, but geniuses do what the world requires the most in the next upcoming years with absolute joy and at ease.”

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Your definite chief aim or career goal in life should be selected with deliberate care & after exploring different career options, and after it has been selected it should be written out & placed where you will see it at least once a day.

The psychological effect of this career planning is to impress this purpose upon your subconscious mind so strongly that it accepts that purpose as a pattern or blueprint that will eventually dominate your road map of activities & make a career path in life and lead you, step by step, like a career guide toward the attainment of the object back of that purpose.

Practical steps to desire properly:

The method by which everyone should desire which transforms into reality, consists of various steps which are as follows:

First:

Your first step is to decide what your major aim in life shall be. If you are having trouble in selecting your chief aim or career you could refer to our blog: How to choose a perfect career? Or you could contact Nourishing Genius, we would be happy to help you.

At Nourishing Genius, we provide service to students who are stuck in a career dilemma & are unable to take proper decisions or are unable to select their definite chief aim. Our career experts will be by your side throughout the whole process of our career guidance program.

The biggest advantage of our program is that our career counsellors would be strangers to you & they don’t have any direct correlation with your career & as a result you could expect utmost clarity with advice that are most suitable to you with keeping your strengths in mind that we gather throughout career tests.

At Nourishing Genius we make sure, our Career Counsellors will be there with you at each & every step and will help you choose your career on the basis of the psychometric assessments of your interest, aptitudes, entrance exams, abilities, career opportunities etc.. which will eventually lead to a successful career decision.

As our brand name suggests, ” We’ll help you discover the genius within you”.

It’s very important to have a single definite chief aim in life because only then your mind would generate a very definite & practical plan for making that aim becoming a reality. So you have to desire your definite chief aim as exactly as possible. It should be clear & definite.

Second:

Determine exactly what you could give in return, what you could sacrifice to achieve that desire because if you want to have something then you will need to sacrifice something. Everything that you want in life has a price to pay to achieve it.

Third:

Establish a definite date when you intend to possess the desire or your chief aim. It’s important because without a deadline. no work could ever be completed. So you have to decide a timeline which should be practical according to your aim which you strongly believe that you would achieve by then.

Fourth:

Create a definite plan for carrying out your desire and begin at once, whether you are ready or not, to put this plan into action. Things start when you take your first step, because everything will start happening once you start the journey, because before starting you could never know each & everything before even starting.

You should ask only one thing to yourself after you select your definite chief aim and that is: If your definite chief aim is constructive means if you achieve then would it be going to help you & other people in a positive & constructive way, if yes, then you should definitely go for it with all your energy.

Fifth:

Write out a clear, concise statement of this aim that you intend to acquire, name the time limit for its acquisition, state what you intend to give in return for the achievement of your aim & also describe clear plans through which you intend to attain to achieve the object of your aim.

By this step you clearly state your subconscious mind that you want to achieve it which will pave a way out of it.

Sixth:

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The last & final step is to read your written statement aloud, twice a day, once just before sleeping at night & once when you wake up in the morning. This will help your subconscious mind to remember this aim & work upon it until it finally becomes a reality.

If your aim you wish to do is right & you believe in it, go ahead and do it! Put your dream across & never mind what anyone would say to you when you fail, because they perhaps, don’t know that “Every Failure is a next step to Success.”

“Do not tell the world what you can do – show it”

Conclusion:

Desire is the first thing before you achieve anything significant in this life.

It’s very important that we don’t wish, don’t dream but instead give birth to a burning desire that helps to make our desire into a reality.

We have discussed proper ways to desire.

Discussed practical steps to desire.

As we know, career counselling in India is not developed fully and as a result guidance & career counselling in India is not yet accepted but in upcoming years this process would be mandatory. So if you ever feel the need for guidance or any sort of help related to your career, you could contact us anytime or visit Nourishing Genius.

As we know how essential & important career guidance & planning are, so do we, at Nourishing Genius we put a team of best career counsellors with good experience & technical skills with highly efficient technological infrastructure.

We believe in quality & properly customised services which are backed by a strong commitment of our whole team. We work with students & schools as well to help them with the career selection process & eliminate all the confusion of students who are ready to make an impact in our society by their hard work & dedication.

We help students to understand the calling of their life with a well researched career counselling process. We also help students to plan their career trajectory with solid career paths.

Hereby we intend to finish this article with lots of good wishes & luck to you for your career. We promise to help you any time in any challenges that you may face in your career, always remember Nourishing Genius is always here for you. You can contact us anytime.